Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Grandpa Frank

So my Grandpa Frank Cope passed away last night-  so glad I visited him on Saturday with Millie and Ellis (and that for our visit he was chatty, awake and alert).  I wish I had a digital pic to post- here are some good memories of him (although thinking back, every memory I have of Grandpa Frank is a good one- that's probably a good goal to have in life):
  • Swimming.  He love to swim (which seemed to be passed down to all of his grandchildren- and great grand children as well).  In fact, on our last visit he reminded me of the time we went to Seven Peaks and I lost my glasses in the wave pool- he dove down to the bottom of the pool to retrieve them.  I did not remind him that was also the trip where I lost my retainer.  And my mom made me go back to Seven Peaks and look through the trash for it.  I also remember that for a long time he would go on slides at Seven Peaks that the rest of us were afraid of. 
  • I remember summer nights sleeping in his back yard with my cousins.  We would sneak in and steal toilet paper, go do some random neighbors house, our aunt Margaret would come out and have us move it to someone else's yard.  I remember the backyard because Grandpa had cherry trees and we would pick them with him.
  • I remember long, late night battles of Mario Brothers and Duck Hunt on Grandpa's Nintendo.  He had a Nintendo before anyone else I know- and he was better at Mario than us.
  • Although I know plays weren't his "thing", he came to see me in my high school shows (Damn Yankees seems to stand out).  I also think he came to some college shows at BYU as well.
  • Grandpa Frank loved movies- I remember going to movies at the Scera with him (and the outdoor pool next door- where he would squirt us in the eyes with water by squeezing his thumb and fingers).  I also remember going to the Scera Drive In with him when I was little (and how Amy and I almost didn't get to go to The Great Mouse Detective because we watched our very first Rated R movie at Grandpa's house.  To be fair, it was Prince's Purple Rain and it was Joanne's movie- not Grandpa's...)
  • He was generous.  He basically funded mine and Jackie's honeymoon as a wedding present for us.
  • He would let me come over and do my laundry when I was at BYU.
  • I will always remember the road trip that Margaret, Joanne and Grandpa Frank and I took to Nebraska one summer when I was in high school.  I remember all of our pit stops (and Grandpa's choice of music making Margaret, Joanne and myself roll our eyes)- I also remember Grandpa cataloging the miles as we went.  That was a fun trip.
  • I remember Jackie interviewing Grandpa and encouraging him to participate in the Utah Senior Games in St. George- where Grandpa medaled in swimming events.
  • Games at Grandpa's.  He always had soda (or was that Margaret and Joanne's soda- I think the Apple and Cherry Beer was his...) but family gatherings were about Pictionary, Risk and other games played in the kitchen.
  • Grandpa Frank was always kind and ready to play with all of his grandchildren.  I think we all definitely knew that he loved us- and we all loved him a lot back.
  • Were you a honker or a critter?

5 comments:

Amy Mak said...

Love it. I want to write one too. Hey, I'm coming and will love forward to more Grandpa stories. Don't forget the gold speedo :)

Abigail said...

This is so great! Grandpa Cope memories are the best. Thanks for sharing :) I only remember the light blue speedo that he always wore when he'd come to visit us in St. George.

Annaca said...

The best part about the gold speedo was that he looked naked from a distance. Always a special treat for the folks at seven peaks!

SMoss said...

This is sweet, Clin. Sorry to hear about your loss. I'm glad that you have happy memories of your Grandpa!

GrannyLanny said...

The gold speedo caused a lot of concern in the neighborhood when Grandpa wore it on the roof as he repaired shingles. Novella thought he was naked. Grandpa was an original.